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At 18, Emma McDonald is like any other teenagerโshe loves hanging out with friends, shopping, and working with kids at Bayview Elementary Schoolโs Kids Zone. But she also navigates life with spina bifida, a condition that makes walking difficult and exhausting. While she has always been determined to do as much as possible, recreational activities have often been a challenge.
Emma was just five years old when a member of the executive team at what was then Courage Kennyโnow Northland Adaptive Recreation (NAR)โnoticed her braces and the way she was walking with her mom at the mall. He approached her mother, Jen, with kindness and curiosity, asking if Emma had ever considered adaptive skiing or snowboarding. That conversation set Emma on a path that would redefine her confidence and sense of independence.
โI canโt control my legs and ankles, so skiing was tough,โ Emma recalls. โI switched to snowboarding, and I absolutely love it.โ She also tried adaptive water skiing, sitting in a specialized chair and leaning to steer across the water. Each new experience built her confidence and expanded her belief in what was possible.
One of Emmaโs biggest obstacles wasnโt just physicalโit was emotional. โI was really insecure about the braces I needed to wear to walk. I didnโt want to stand out or be seen as different,โ she admits. โFor many summers, I refused to wear dresses or shorts. I wore leggings. I didnโt want people to see my braces.โ
Her NAR volunteer snowboarding partner, Brent, played a huge role in her confidence journey. โWe zoom down the hills and he always tells me I can do it, even when I doubt myself.โ Snowboarding gave Emma something she hadnโt experienced beforeโa sport where she felt fully included and capable. โOn the slopes, I can go fastโitโs like running,” says Emma. โI donโt have to think about anything else; I just have fun.โ
Beyond the sport itself, NAR has provided Emma with a sense of belonging. โItโs given me the chance to connect with people who have similar experiences. We see the world in the same way, and thatโs really special.โ Even her physical therapist, who volunteers with NAR, has been able to bridge the gap between therapy and real-world adventure.
For Emmaโs mom, Jen, watching her daughter grow in confidence has been invaluable. But her journey as a mother didnโt just stop with Emmaโit inspired her to make a difference in the lives of others. Raising Emma meant navigating a world that wasnโt always accessible. Jen and her two older sons spent countless hours at area parks, only to find that pea gravel, wood chips, and ramps that led nowhere made it nearly impossible for Emma to get around. โThe frustration was real,โ Jen recalls. โIt felt like she was left out of something as simple as playing.โ
Determined to change that, Jen built a playground in the Proctor area designed for kids of all abilities. โI wanted to honor Emma and give her the playground she never had,โ she says. โEvery kid can get to the top tower, and thereโs even a swing for kids in wheelchairs. Itโs really something.โ
For Emma, building confidence isnโt just about adaptingโitโs about pushing beyond expectations. She feels good when the kids she works with ask her questions about her braces. And she dreams of trying other adaptive sportsโmaybe horseback riding or archery. But no matter whatโs next, snowboarding will always hold a special place in her heart. If she had to sum it up in one word it would be โfree,โ she says. โItโs the best feeling in the world.โ
By focusing on what individuals can do rather than what they cannot, Northland Adaptive Recreation (NAR) promotes empowerment and positive self-esteem. It encourages an environment where people are given opportunities to thrive based on their capabilities. Learn more about NAR at mdfoundation.org/support-areas/northland-adaptive-recreation.ย