“Everything is going to be fine.” We’re often tempted to say things like this when we hear scary or sad news, but false platitudes may signal to the person with cancer that you are unwilling to discuss the realities and challenges of the situation.
“You’ve got the good kind of cancer.” Any cancer diagnosis turns a person’s world upside down—emotionally, physically and financially. There is no “good kind.”
Nothing at all. It is hard to watch someone you care about cope with a cancer diagnosis. It’s okay to admit that you’re not sure what the right thing to say is or how you can help. The most important part is to start the conversation.
(Source: cancer.org)