Simple grounding tools to support your well-being, one moment at a time.

Many Minnesotans are carrying more stress than usual. When life feels heavy, simple ways to steady yourself can help. This page offers gentle grounding practices and support to meet you where you are, right now. Explore the five tools at your own pace, and remember: 

You are not alone.

Pause & Breathe

When stress rises, our bodies often tense up without us noticing. Breathing can become fast and shallow, which can make everything feel more intense.

Slow, steady breathing can help calm your body and signal that you’re safe in this
moment. By gently slowing your breath and letting your belly rise and fall, you can reduce tension and create space to think more clearly.

Try this:
● Breathe in slowly through your nose.
● Breathe out slowly through your mouth.
● Let your belly rise and fall.
● Do this for a few minutes.

You don’t have to do it perfectly. Slowing your breath even just a little can help your body settle so you can think more clearly. It’s something you can use anytime, anywhere, when things start to feel like too much.

Focus on One Step at a Time

When stress builds up, it can become harder to sort through problems or decide what to focus on first. Things can start to blur together, making even small decisions feel like too
much.

Pausing to focus on one small, manageable step can help restore a sense of steadiness. Instead of trying to solve everything at once, you might try:
● Choosing one problem that’s weighing on you.
● Noticing what part of it you can influence.
● Breaking it into smaller pieces.
● Taking one simple step forward.

Some problems don’t have easy solutions, and that’s okay. Even taking one small step
can help reduce the weight you’re carrying and remind you that you still have options.
Remember, you don’t have to fix everything at once.

Keep Moving, Gently

Ongoing stress can make it hard to keep up with routines or activities that once felt easy or grounding. Even simple things can start to feel like too much.

Sometimes, gently getting back into motion can help. You don’t have to push yourself or try to do everything at once. Small actions, like stepping outside, taking a short walk or
doing one familiar task, can help lift your mood and remind your body that you’re still moving forward.

Try this:
● Think of one small activity that usually helps you feel a little better.
● Keep it simple and realistic.
● Do it even if your energy or motivation feels low.

Remember, moving slowly is still moving forward.

Reach for Support

When things feel heavy, it’s easy to pull inward or feel like you have to push through by yourself. In fact, many people carry stress quietly, even when support is nearby.

Having support doesn’t mean getting all the answers or talking through everything; it simply means not having to hold everything by yourself. 

Support can be emotional, practical or even just the quiet presence of someone you trust. What matters most is that it feels safe, respectful, and right for you.

Try this:

● Think about one person you trust.

● If it feels okay, consider one small way to connect.

● That might mean sending a short text, spending time together or letting them know you could use a little help.

● You don’t have to explain everything or share more than you’re ready to.

Support looks different for everyone. What matters is choosing what feels respectful, safe and helpful to you.

Remember, you’re not meant to carry hard moments alone. It’s healthy to let support in.

Stay Well, Look Ahead

Stress doesn’t always end cleanly, and challenges don’t arrive one at a time. Paying attention to what helps you feel steady can make it easier to navigate what comes next.

It can help to notice what’s supported you before, recognize early signs of rising stress, and return to the tools that help you regain your footing.

Try this:
● Reflect on what’s helped you feel calmer or more grounded in the past.
● Notice early signals that stress is starting to build.

● Remind yourself of the tools and practices that help you feel more steady again.

Staying well doesn’t mean avoiding hard moments; it means knowing you have ways to support yourself when they arrive.

You’ve handled difficult things before. You don’t have to face what comes next without
care or support. Remember: one step, one moment at a time.

 

These tools were initially developed by the World Health Organization and are now implemented by the Miller-Dwan Foundation’s global mental health care institute, ArcaMind.

Amberwing — Center for Youth & Family Well-Being

Child & Adolescent Mental Health FAQs

Among the more common mental disorders that can be diagnosed in childhood are attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), anxiety (fears or worries), and behavior disorders. Other childhood disorders and concerns can include learning and developmental disabilities, autism, and risk factors like substance use and self-harm.

(Source: cdc.gov)

It is important to be aware of warning signs that your child may be struggling. You can play a critical role in knowing when your child may need help.

  • Feeling very sad or withdrawn for more than two weeks
  • Seriously trying to harm or kill themself, or making plans to do so
  • Showing out-of-control behavior that can hurt oneself or others
  • Having intense worries or fears that get in the way of daily activities
  • Having severe mood swings that cause problems in relationships
  • Showing drastic changes in behavior or personality
  • Using drugs or alcohol repeatedly

(Source: mentalhealth.gov)

To start a conversation with your child about mental health try leading with these questions. Make sure you actively listen to your child’s response.

  • How are you feeling? Can you tell me more about what’s happening? 
  • Have you had feelings like this in the past?
  • I’m here to listen. How can I help you feel better?
  • Do you feel like you want to talk to someone else?
  • I’m worried about your safety. Can you tell me if you have thoughts about harming yourself or others?

(Source: mentalhealth.gov)

If you are concerned about your child’s behaviors, it is important to get appropriate care. You should:

  • Talk to your child’s doctor, school nurse or another health care provider and seek further information about the behaviors or symptoms that worry you
  • Ask your child’s primary care physician if your child needs further evaluation by a specialist with experience in child behavioral problems
  • Ask if your child’s specialist is experienced in treating the problems you are observing

If the situation is potentially life-threatening, get immediate emergency assistance by calling 911.

If your child is considering suicide or is in emotional distress, you can have them call or text  988—the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Trained crisis workers are available to talk 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. 

(Source: mentalhealth.gov)

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